Posted by
JayPeriod on Friday, February 29, 2008 10:06:27 AM
Recently in our town, Murfreesboro, TN, a young, 14-year-old, girl was raped by an 18-year-old boy on a school bus. It happened over a 15 minute period, while the bus was both stopped and moving. The whole ordeal was caught on the video camera located above the driver, including her pleas for help and for him to stop. It happened a mere seven rows back from the driver and on a bus filled with approximately 60 other students. It has been a week and the driver has been cleared of all wrong-doing and no other students have come forward to corroborate the girls story.
There is so much wrong with this, on so many levels that I don't know where to begin. Granted, the boy did not undress her and engage in intercourse (he put his hand down her pants and penetrated her that way), but for no one to do anything disgusts me. The driver claims he did not hear or notice her, despite the video having such audio (and we know how wonderful and sensitive those video camera mics are). Now, one week later and the police are still asking someone to come forward and report what they saw and heard. Yet, no one has come forward.
First, we have to look at the idea that this may not have been the first time this boy has done something like this to someone. He was very bold in this instance, approaching her, forcing her to move over, then groping and accosting her. Someone that moves so boldly, in such a public place, does not seem like someone who has never done it before. More than likely, he has done something similar before and gotten away with it, driving him on with more boldness. Hopefully, with his arrest and expulsion from the school system, other possible victims will come forward.
Next, the bus driver claims that he was busy keeping his eye on the road. Yet, the video shows that the incident started while the bus was stopped. What was he doing during this period? Was he talking to another driver outside the bus? Was he listening to his iPod, not paying attention to who entered his bus or what they were doing? I rode a bus when I was young and our bus drivers always engaged us as we entered the bus and faced us prior to the bus leaving the school. Then, as the bus was in motion, their eyes were regularly engaging us in the overhead mirror. They also seemed to have the hearing of Superman, as they always caught us, even in a whisper. Yet, the school board has cleared this man without any questions.
Next, what were the other students thinking? Only one student is shown to have engaged the boy, trying to get him to converse. Becoming bored, the thug went back to what he was doing. No one else did so much as to tell the driver. Surely if one of them had told the driver what was going on, he would have stopped and at least called the police. None of the students used their phones to call 911, probably because they would have had their phone confiscated for taking it to school. Wouldn't want that, now would we? Instead, we can imagine them sitting there, watching the scene just as if they were watching a scene from Grand Theft Auto. Have they really become so hardened by these video games that they can't realize that this is real life?
Finally, none of the parents of those bystanders have done anything to bring their children forward to witness. Surely those parents whose students were on that bus know it, yet no one has dragged their little darling to the police station to give testimony of what they saw. If it were my child standing by, and I knew it, and they didn't come forward on their own, I would devise more punishments than they could imagine if they chose to ignore what this girl had to endure. They would surely think I thought they were the perpetrator.
So, what does this say about our society? A young man can assault a young girl, scarring her for life, yet no one saw anything, even though they were all within 20 feet and a video camera clearly caught it all. Have movies and video games and pornography made voyeurs of us all? Have we become so desensitized to violence that we do nothing? Have we become so selfish, caring about what will happen to us if we speak up, that we turn our heads and let the dregs of society get away with whatever they choose?
In the forums on the local news site, when someone mentions that the movie, porn and video game industries may shoulder some of the blame, they are assaulted as closed-minded censors. They are ridiculed for believing that those items can affect the thought process of anyone. To accuse them is to deny that we responsible for our choices.
This is far from the truth, as we are responsible for our own choices. Yet, those mediums can distort how we view our world, therefore changing our perception of what those consequences will be. These things engage our minds and release chemicals into our system that react with drug-like responses. Just as the crack user can know that crack kills, the mind and body make life miserable if the person chooses to deny themselves that drug.
Yet, we cannot force all the blame on these industries. We, as a society, have allowed them to become so powerful. We have encouraged them by supporting them and we have become tolerant of the criminals that duplicate their scenes. The criminal justice system has gone from protecting the victim, and potential witnesses, to protecting the criminal, hoping for rehabilitation, even when that is very unlikely. Judges have removed the idea of punishment from prison and we have allowed it.
The only question left is, what will we, as a society, do to regain our sense of right and wrong? We have worked so hard for so long to remove moral absolutes that we may have done more damage than can be repaired. We have supported the idea that if someone wants to do something and it doesn't affect me, that it is their choice. This moral relativism is now catching up with us. We are reaping what we have sown.
The only way back, now, is to reestablish a foundation of right and wrong. We must remove the idea that personal choice overrules the good of society. That may mean some long accept practices will now become wrong, but the alternative is to move closer and closer to anarchy, which can only lead to a police-state where no one has any rights. We must restore consequences. Punishment must be unpleasant, harsh and memorable. The worst dregs of society must be removed, either by capital punishment or permanent incarceration. To allow the most violent in our society to return to the streets only emboldens others and threatens us all.
Surely we have not gone too far to return. If we take back decency, we can restore a peaceful society. To do nothing really should be an unacceptable possibility.